March 15, 2013
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Bad Relationships
Why yes, I am back. So a couple of weeks ago, the hard drive on my computer took a dive. Good thing I had all my files backed up on an external hard drive.. So I ordered a new hard drive, got an operating system, had some trouble installing drivers so I could connect to the interwebs, but finally, here I am!
So anyway, something that has been on my mind is bad relationships. Toxic ones. Relationships where people call each other horrible names when they fight, and they fight often. Nasty fights that get one or both people involved in the relationship hurt…the ones that happen all the time. Toxic relationships don’t have to be just physical violence. I think you can be in love with someone, and have love for someone, and still be in a bad relationship.
So the question I pose is, at what point do you leave the relationship? At what point do you give up on love?
And oh, my new favorite song…
Comments (21)
me looking back, I would not ignore the red flags like disregarding my feelings and isolating me from other people. Also, the second I realized we were never going to really work on communicating with each other.
When the balance of tears to smiles tips too far in the favor of the tears.
He gave up on me last week, calling my family evil and greedy, saying my parents are trying to keep me dependent on them while at the same time saying that my parents need me. He went on to call me selfish, naive, and a coward. And he’s sick. He’s not taking his meds or even seeing someone.
I am giving up on love, for now. Three years of being with someone you love, but then have them turn from Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde in the last 2 months hurts. You feel so tired. Betrayed, cheated. manipulated, used and hurt.
Your community rating is ex. I rated u an a but u need more as u have 8 ex ratings.
@buddy71 - How did that happen?!?!?
@Erika_Steele - @Shadowrunner81 @HerCarelessWhispers - come back here and rate her an a. Her community rating is ex
@crazy2love - some jerks have been going around being mean. Only those who can view ex can see your post. You need to also do a self rating of an a
@buddy71 - I did.
@buddy71 - I did do that…but that is just not cool at all. If Xanga wants to keep the stupid rating system, they should look into this, because it’s not fair to people that have done nothing wrong :/
Just dropped by to give you an “A” rating. Don’t let the buzzards get you down.
@Such_are_you - Thank you!!
@crazy2love - You’re welcome! No one should be silenced on their own site by an “ex” rating.
@buddy71 - I just gave her an A.
@mtngirlsouth - Thank you <3 I don’t know who is doing this or why..but it’s just rude :/
Me either, and I agree. And, you’re welcome!
Just dropping off an A rating.
@DougX831 - Thank you!!
I’ve been wondering if these EX ratings are the spammers answer to being blocked from xanga
Just rated you an A. That stinks that you got hit too and you weren’t even around to notice.
I think if you aren’t married and have no Children but truly love each other try a few different counselor’s. If a partner is not willing then split. If you’ve been in counseling and there is little or no progress leave.
If you are married or have kid’s push a little harder for counseling and hold out a little longer before splitting.
If some one really loves you and you really love them it will work out.
That would be hard to say for me as the only bad ones ended rather easily. Weren’t abusive, just cheating . . . they just ended.