February 21, 2012
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I broke up with my boyfriend last night. I’ve been thinking about it for a while, but now that I have, I wonder if it’s the right thing. I just feel really depressed right now.
I care about him a lot. He’s so sweet. But I just felt like we are completely different people. I felt like he didn’t understand my personality. I just felt like it wasn’t working.
But I have a heavy heart, being responsible for completely breaking someone’s heart. I feel like a terrible person.
I’m not doing my homework today. I don’t feel like doing anything.
I would really like a bottle of wine.
I feel really shitty today. I haven’t taken a shower and I’m still in my pajamas. I’m just watching LA Ink all day. Sounds like a plan to me.
Thinking of trying this cleanse. I don’t know.
Comments (24)
*hugs*
hang in there, we’re here if you need to talk or vent <3
I am sorry for you, honey. It is very normal to be down for a break up. But you did the right thing if, in your heart, you knew you were not just right for each other. Delaying the inevitable would be worse.
I’m sorry. Feel better<3
sorry
better now than later. *hug*
-hugs-
give the decision a little time to settle in before you change it.
I hope you feel better soon. *hug*
You followed your heart and in the end saved them from an even greater heartache. Few people are strong enough to end it when they should.
You mentioned a little while ago that this was coming, and it sounds to me like you’re mostly (though perhaps not entirely) comfortable with the notion that it was the right thing to do. I’m sure that doesn’t make it any easier, though, especially in a case like this where there’s really no “bad guy”, just a mismatch.
Please hang in there and know that we’re thinking of you.
@LKJSlain - *hugs*
@BoulderChristina - Thank you
@raspberryjade - Thank you <3
@my0615 - I know it’s the best thing to do, I just feel so terrible.
@heythereJOANN - Thanks <3
@ShimmerBodyCream - *hugs*
@UnconventionalButterfly - *hugs*
@RushmoreJ - I don’t plan on changing my mind, which I hope I made clear to him.
@Cestovatelka - Thanks *hugs*
@wyckdstorm - Yeah, I was really anxious before I said anything, but it just kind of spilled out. I felt relieved that I finally spoke my mind, but I felt horrible at the same time.
@TheSchizoidMan - It does really suck that he’s not a “bad guy,” because he didn’t do anything wrong. Sometimes things don’t work out, but knowing that doesn’t make it any easier either. Thank you.
sorry to hear that
Give it time. If you let them, things will work out for the best.
Time for a new dick!
@TheSchizoidMan - kudos – couldn’t have put it better. take care if yourself too!!! there’s nothing bad about you in this either!
Even needed changes hurt. HUGS
it makes it all so confusing when you feel shitty even when you do the RIGHT thing. Feel better soon.
It’ll get better with time. Better to end things now then to wait for him to be even more attached and have the same ending. ♥ You’re strong and lovely, everything will be okay.
Yeah, it’s never easy and of course you’ll feel a bit sad for awhile, but by the way you talked about your feelings..it seemed to be going that way anyhow.
Better break it up now than later when it gets harder to.
;( still not as easy though.
I hope you know for sure, for yourself, if you made the right choice. Feel better soon!
… Hmm… well, you could always try to go out with your friends. if you’re not sure if you made the right decision, i think you should go out and meet new people and see how that goes. if it doesn’t go right and you feel wrong, then you may no the answer. feel better hun!
aww ::hugs:: I feel the same way. I want some wine. Me and my bf broke up on Saturday after I moved out of my old place he helped me out but he accused me of stealing his wine glasses, when he actually gave them to me last year when he moved out he was going to toss them, apparently he doesn’t remember any of that so he broke one, he says unintentionally… but I had sentimental value towards those wine glasses… so I cried and he made a big deal about it and thus now we’re no longer together… He initiated the break up… I told him to not regret it later because I wasn’t going to go running back to him… Our relationship has been rocky for a while… and when we do fight he always asks me to come back… but I’m always the one going back… I feel used…. Even though it hurts and I’ve been missing him and thinking about him every moment of every day… I know I can’t easily just take him back even though I miss him so much…
I rarely use my xanga, but I do when I’m really upset. I’ve actually been thinking the same thing about my girlfriend for some time. You have no idea what it’s like to log on and see your post …