November 1, 2009
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This Is Me (With Photos :)
Since this last week was my most productive ever (I had 37 new friends in just a week) on Xanga, I’m going to post a little bit about me so everyone can get to know me a little better =]
I’m 23, my name is Crystal, I live in Minnesota with my dad and one of my sisters (I have 3). I work full time in a warehouse, and I am the second shift lead. So I’m sort of the boss. I don’t really get to make many decisions, but I get to tell people what to do
. This is my first job with a position of being in charge of people, and I’ve changed my strategy a bit. I used to be buddy buddy with my employees, but I quickly found out people walk all over you when you do that.
Now I’m a lot tougher on them, more strict, and I yell more. Well, not really yell, but I use a stern tone of voice and look pissed a lot. It seems to work better. Hey, you’re there to work, this isn’t social hour man…even though I like to talk…a lot.
Anyway, I’ve been trying to go to school on and off, but I’m having a hard time figuring out what I want to study, so I haven’t enrolled in any classes in a year.
Generally, I’m a very nice person. I’m compassionate and understanding. Except if you piss me off or fuck me over in some way. People don’t usually get second chances with me. I have quite a temper and quick to be angry. You would definitely see this if you were to be a passenger in my car once.
It pisses me off when people ask me my age and I tell them I’m 23. Then the next sentence I hear is “Oh, you’re a baby!” Or some such thing. Look, you don’t know me and my experiences. Someone’s age doesn’t define who they are. There are 6 year olds forced to pick up guns and shoot people in other countries. There are 5 year old girls that are raped and molested under your noses, so don’t tell me I’m a baby. Your neighbors with a couple kids under the age of 6 beat them. Unless you know someone’s life experiences, don’t assume they haven’t lived if they’re young. It’s bullshit.
Anyway, now that that little mini rant is over, here’s some pics of my many faces (and hair colors). They are in no particular order…
This one everyone knows. It’s my profile pic
Isn’t that pink hair stunning? I miss it so much, you have no idea. It’s just too much damage to my hair and too expensive to keep doing
This is a drunk pic, because they are so fun. This was the night I turned 21. I bought my first 6 pack of beer that night, and drank by myself in my room because it was a weeknight haha!!
This was how I did my hair the night we went out for my 21st birthday. At different points throughout the night, about 20 people showed up. Almost everyone bought me a shot, and some people bought me more than one. Plus, beer just appeared at my elbow all night long. I drank A LOT that night, and spilled a lot. There was a lot of boob grabbing. I’m surprised we didn’t get kicked out!! I didn’t spend a dime
Here’s the deal with this pic: The sun was setting, and I had my blinds a little open, so I took some pics with that lighting. I think they all turned out awesome, but my mother hates these pics. She thinks I look evil
The same day…I think it looks pretty awesome with the different hair colors =]
Another drunk pic. As if you couldn’t tell. I was wasted!! I’m not a lush, by the way…I’ve just had a lot of drunk experiences throughout the last 5 years!
Just showing off my hair. I do that a lot..but not lately =[ I currently don't have a camera!!
That's my upper thigh. I did a whole bunch of words in this "photo shoot" on my leg. That was the best one I think. Anyway, yes, those are cuts on my leg...but that's a different post.
Yep, that's my ass. I personally love my butt..sometimes. It's actually pretty small. I'm not sure how it looks so big here!
I like this pic because it's artistic. In my opinion =]
Aww it’s so pretty! I think my eyes are my best feature. There’s a different one in this series where my eyes look bluer, but I couldn’t find it =[
This is how I did my hair when I went to see the Rocky Horror Show, the play. I think. That or the Marilyn Manson concert...I don't remember!!
That's how the back looked. Pretty sweet, huh??
And...this is how it looked when I took it down!!!
I like this one because the sun created like a halo effect...it's pretty sweet!
This is another hair color I've had. It didn't work very well because I tried it over some blonde streaks that turned a funny color after it faded =[
Aww pretty =] Haha I have a feather in my hair from a down blanket
Drunk as a skunk we were. That’s my friend Miranda, and we went out for her birthday. On the way back to her house, her husband was the sober driver…and I was talking (as usual!) and happened to notice that he was going 90mph in the 65!!! I pretty much screamed in his ear to slow down.
I look weird here, but I never pass up a chance to show off my pretty blues!
Me and 2 of my sisters =] It was a good day. We were driving to meet up with extended family to celebrate birthdays in March (one of them was mine). On the car ride me and my sisters got crazy and silly. We always act that way when we get together =]
I love this. My mom got me Aperature for my Macbook for Christmas, and I love playing with the colors, and this was one of my experiments =]
Finally, last but not least, I took this photo this last summer. I love it. I want to get those roses tattooed on me someday!!
Comments (73)
Your hair is gorgeous and you have beautiful eyes
It is great to hear more about you.
I am not the yelling type or the stern type. Perhaps I am a pushover as a boss.
ooo la la, Aries love to tell people what to do. You must be so happy there he he. Yelling is also an excellent use of Aries energy.
“a boob grabbing” lol I LIKE the evil pics, specially the second one. yeah man, your eyes are trippy throughtout, I like them with the black hair looking up. Yes, I do believe some souls are older than others regardless of chronological age.
This was informative and fun!
awesome pics …and wow, you have the bluest eyes everrrrr …lucky! =)
nice to meet you! your eyes ARE gorgeous!
Wow awesome pics! I love your eyes! I loved the pink hair too, it suited you haha.
“Haha I have a father in my hair from a down blanket
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I didn’t see a dad anywhere in your hair!
Enough of me being a smart-ass here.
Great post.
Your eyes are wonderful and just from that picture your booty looks great too!
you’re gorgeous.
I love your blue on blue flecked eyes! I will be true to the male half of the group and say you have a right most sweet kissable ass too!
;-p …and it is not too big at all!
Great post, its nice to learn about people on xanga
i actually did a similar post a few days ago sans the pics though lol.
I am a little surprised that you get called a baby or any such, as I am 22 and have never been calling anything like that! Maybe its the facial hair for me though, i am told it makes me look older.
Wow; thanks for sharing those! You are absolutely beautiful!
You really do have pretty eyes…of course, I’m also extremely partial to blue =D
Love your hair.
Love the pictures! I was thinking of doing a similar post…minus all the pictures.
This isn’t meant as an insult — You’re nuts!!! hahahaha Just kiddin’ The pics are great. I know what you mean being young and being a boss. I had 23 people working for me in a printing company and one thing I learned is – Don’t get too chummy with some. the other people will gossip and think you treat others better.
Good God! Rumors, gossip, cat fights, the place was like a war zone some days. By the sound of things, you know what you’re doing so I’m going to shut up. Glad we’ve met – you’re a lot of fun!!!
I love your eyes.
You are beautiful (:
@Manstration - Thanks!
@TheTheologiansCafe - Actually, being that kind of boss works for some people! I had a boss that was the nicest person I’ve ever met, and everyone worked for her. That’s actually where I got my inspiration for being that way. It just didn’t work for me.
@Loonsounds - lol yes, I am very much an Aries! I can be very angry really fast, but in the same breath, that makes for a very passionate person!
@Peridot21 - @raspberryjade - @hotpinkstarberry - Haha thanks
@SliverLines - Haha I fixed it
Thanks!
@ghostcomplex - Thank you.
@wenty3208 - Haha thanks. I know my butt isn’t that big, it just looked big!
@LaidbackPhilosopher - Yeah..being a young man is different from being a young woman, unfortunately =[ I'll have to check yours out!
@lonelywanderer2 - @jupiter312 - @pawnshop_heart - Thanks =]
@SimplyNita - Go for it!!
@dikdoktor - What do you mean I’m nuts?! lmao!
@iloveyoubabydoll_728 - Thank you so much =]
Minnesota is way cold. And I imagine it is nice being the boss. Happy Sunday
Well it is great to know more about you. I loved the photos. I would post some of me but I am shy and have other reasons why I shouldn’t.
Oh and I hear there is a football game this afternoon.
@Paul_Partisan - Minnesota isn’t that cold. I don’t even wear a jacket all winter long, unless it gets below zero!!
@godfatherofgreenbay - Oh yes. We are very excited for the game!!!
Ah thanks, nice to get to know you a bit more!
fun blog! nice to “meet” you! and, btw, the pink hair you had was awesome! can’t imagine how much work that would be to keep up, tho.
YaY! I always get excited when I find other people from Minnesota. ♥
Cute hair by the way. I love colors. ♥
i am probably moving to mn. too very soon. funny how several of my friends live there or close to there. i liked mostly the pic of you with the hoody where you said how pretty are your eyes.
I wish my eyes were lighter blue like yours. :[ I am jealous.Haha.
You’re beautiful.
Some cool pics!
You are beautiful. <3 And I love the various hairs.
One time about 10 years ago I drove through a part of Minnesota and my wife wasn’t along for the ride because she wasn’t that interested in the countryside. I think I saw 2 deer. I went from the area near Fargo, ND to Duluth I think. Then about a day later I went down through Wisconsin back to the Chicago area. Minnesota has a lot of lakes. When I was there it was summer. Later I took a flight from Chicago to San Francisco and went to my cousin’s wedding. That was kind of boring but the um, Sonoma Valley is very pretty. The wedding was near Sonoma.
Before I went to California I drove through parts of Iowa, South Dakota, North Dakota, and Minnesota and Wisconsin. I actually rented a car in Chicago and drove all the way to Iowa the first night of that part of my trip. I would like to see more of South Dakota one of these days but I don’t know when. There were lots of beef cattle there.
Duluth was on a lake (one of the Great Lakes, maybe Lake Superior), and had a lot of grain elevators and cool stuff like that. People don’t know about the beauty of these small cities unless they start looking at maps and thinking about things.
I would be interested to see what you look like with your hair in a braid or ponytail, but you’d need to grow the sides a little longer and get them even with the back. A braid would look kind of old fashioned but it would work because you have a very oval shape about your face. Runs in your family.
Thanks for showing a bit of your self through this.
I really like your eyes! And the black hair!! You have very nice black hair.
U have the most amazing eyes!!! omg JELIOUS!!!
Sigh… why so glum, beautiful?
You have gorgeous eyes and great hair!
@DearRicky - Haha…not really so glum a lot of times..I just hate smiling in photos because I get a double chin =[
@chelseanataliex - Thanks =]
@xclevermealsx - Thank you! I have recently said though, that I am only dying my hair red or black for a very long time, because it’s so damaging =[
@forwhomthebelsentolls - Oh I know, I love it here. You should see it in person when the leaves turn! Also, I've been trying to grow my hair out, but it takes a long time and it's difficult. My hair is prone to split ends from straightening and dying it =[
@QueenOfOreos - Thanks! My natural color is actually dark brown with natural red highlights. =]
@thoughmomma - Thanks…though I do wish I had brown eyes!!
@rhiannonator - Thank you =]
cute pics.
Your hair takes color really well!!
Its great to get to know you a little better. =]
@Roadlesstaken -
@BeetsAreIcky - It is hard work to keep up..so I’ve stopped trying! I just dye it red or black once every 6 weeks.
@petitenoirtenue - I know, I do too! And thanks =]
@The_Female_Essence - Thank you =] I’m sure you’ll love it here. If you aren’t used to the cold though, it can be a bitch! My aunt in law is from Alabama and lived in Texas, and she once said “You know it’s cold in Minnesota when your snot freezes in your nose!” Haha
@LilSweetJew - Aww thanks =]
How cute!! You do have gorgeous eyes.
@Emylemuel - Thanks =]
@Eternalimplosion - Thank you! Yeah, I’ve heard hair dying horror stories, but it only happened to me once, so I don’t dye my hair like I used to. I went to the salon to get my hair bleached so I could do my pink again, and they totally wrecked my hair. It was coming out all stringy and it was like thin, white string. I was so upset I called the salon and they told me that they used the same concentration of bleach as before and they wouldn’t give me my money back. Either they were lying, or the lady mixed it wrong somehow. When I had gone before, my hair wasn’t nearly as blonde, and it didn’t look like that. She said that if you dye your hair a lot, that will eventually happen. No. Because I’ve looked it up online before. Your hair only gets fried and falls out like that if you bounce from color to color within a couple of weeks. I hadn’t dyed my hair in 3 or 4 months, so I was totally fine to get my hair bleached. It was fried and I had to get it cut off really short because no matter what I did, I couldn’t get it healthy again. Now it’s finally starting to grow back and I don’t think I’ll ever go to Fantastic Sam’s ever again, no matter what it’s for. (Haha sorry for the long response…but it was very upsetting for me!!)
@maxxi2031 - Thank you =]
@crazy2love - bahaha, I understand. Hair is a big deal to us girls… when i got home from the hospital i noticed my hair was falling out BAD from the stress. It upset me more in the moment than when i found out i was paralyzed. lol! So ridiculous. =P
Its finally starting to stop falling out! YAY!!
@Eternalimplosion - That’s awesome! I know it’s awful when you realize you’re losing more hair every day than you should.
@crazy2love - definitely traumatic. haha.
Can I just say…. You are absolutely insanely freaking gorgeous. XD Oh.. and I love your eyes.
You DO have very pretty eyes.
@crazy2love - Just extend your chin a little like I do, haha.
@DearRicky - Haha I try! I haven’t had a camera in months and it makes me sad, lol
@XxTransJayBoyxX -
Thanks
@Another_Perfect_Wonder - Thank you =]
@crazy2love - Aw. I made you blush didn’t I?
@XxTransJayBoyxX - It’s actually quite easy to make me blush. I do it all the time, lol.
@crazy2love - Haha. Well as long as you had a huge smile on your face and you blushed, I did good. XD
Nice pix. I love how the blue of your eyes pop when you have darker hair.
@doesthisdefineme - Thanks!
You’re pretty
I love the hair colors!! ESP the pink!
@XxrockxXxgirlxX - Thank you! =]
What product did you use to get your hair that pink?
@musterion99 - I tried 2 brands, and the one that I found worked the best was Special Effects, and the color was Nuclear Pink. It still faded after about a week or 2 or so, so I had to re-apply it every once in awhile.
@crazy2love - Did you have to bleach it out first?
@musterion99 - Yeah. I just did streaks so I didn’t have to bleach my whole head lol!
@crazy2love - It looks really good on you.
@DessertHer - Haha that’s awesome! I’ve never been compared to someone else before. =]
@musterion99 - Thanks! =]
In your first 2 photos you remind me of my very best pal Amber (minus the pink hair). The bit about being compassionate and understanding but quick to tell it like it is and get ticked while driving is her all! Actually, when you went I to describe your annoyance with people judgeing you based on your age I looked to my left, then right…. then left again, raised one eyebrow while lowering the other, and said out loud, “Amber?”. Shes 26 but aside from myself and a few others, most of the people she socializes with are in their late 30′s.
All the more reason for me to visit your blog.
ETA: I’ve had very good results with a vibrant hair coloring brand called “Punky Colour”. I used to do the bottom 2 or 3 inches of my bangs in Pillarbox Red or Flamingo Pink. They saturated great and lasted pretty long considering the unnatural hue. I’ve tried several other brands and none came close to working as well. I bleached first of course. The color even sunk into my natural dark brown hair enough to make a well blended transition from the bright color to my natural color. Doing tips only is also a good way to avoid having to deal with growout!
@crazy2love - hope you’re ok with the comparrison. She awesome so it’s definatly a complimentary comparrison.
btw-edited my last comment at the end.
@DessertHer - No, that’s awesome! It’s actually nice, because that way my “internet” personality seems more real to people. The other day, Dan posted something about Xangans being more real on the internet than they are in real life, or more open, something like that. Anyway, it just makes it easier to personify your internet friends!
I’ve never heard of that brand! I just bought whatever they had at Hot Topic, and it worked pretty well for me. Yeah, when it starts growing out, mine looked a little terrible..so if I ever went back to those colors, I would probably try just the tips.
You do have really gorgeous eyes. I like how often your hair has changed. I’d like to change mine up, but my hair is so thin and has already had to go through chlorine damage from swimming, so it makes me nervous to do anything to possibly hurt it. And yay Minnesota! I lived there for most of my childhood, awesome place.
O blessed lady, Your eyes have the depth of oceans, for a little while i was drowned in it, your eyebrows are like arrows thats go deep through heart, you have the power to prey even strongest men:)
Thanx for sharing the immense beauty of nature, it made my day:)
nice to meet you. You have amazingly pretty eyes.
I love the orange hoodie pic,your eyes stand out,very beautiful!
@crazy2love - Well, Ms. Crystal, I am not a cosmetologist, I’m a lawyer, and I keep my hair very short, basically because I go to court and judges like that and clients like it even more. No piercings, no earrings. A mustache that I trim now and then. I think I look like a German shepard. Duyyy, ruff ruff ruff!!! But for you, my recommendation is DON’T put too much junk in your hair, for 6 months or a year. Maybe you should try to wash it with a gentler shampoo, such as Johnson & Johnson Baby Shampoo? And don’t put any hair straightener in it. You’ll get a lot of static, split ends, etc., but wymyn are creative with their hair and with twists and knots and baby birdie buns, and I think your hair will be very Goddess-like in about a year or so if you treat it properly. Americans put too much junk in their digestive tracts (such as food from MacDonalds and Taco Bell), and too much junk in their hair. So don’t be part of it. Use a gentler brush and a gentler shampoo.
YOU GO GRRL!!!!!!!
you’re really pretty. love the hair!
you have killer eyes!
Your butt is very….rotund lol. And I’m with you on the age thing, you can’t really categorize someone by their age because people handle their ages differently.