Month: September 2010

  • "A prank gone wrong"

    I would really like to know how you justify this as "a prank gone wrong." I'm talking about the death of the gay college student, of course.

    If the generation of today believes this is just a prank gone wrong, I am truly afraid for the future of humanity. Filming someone else having sex without their consent is NOT a prank, no matter if they're gay, straight, transgendered, or anything else. It's a disgusting invasion of privacy. Like I saw someone else say, a prank is someone putting shaving cream in your hand when you're sleeping, NOT filming someone having sex.

    Let's play a little imagination game. Think if this guy was straight and he was having sex with a female. Not a big deal for the guy, right? Yay, right? Because so many guys are pigs. But think about the female. SHE would be devastated. SHE might be the one committing suicide. See how the tables are turned?

    However, this story IS about the guy being gay. It's a scary thing when you're gay. It's hard. The fact that he hadn't told people yet says a lot because that means he wasn't comfortable with it yet. He might not have been comfortable with himself.

    For the people who are saying it's his fault for committing suicide, you can go fuck yourself. Have you ever had such a secret that was revealed to the world in such a manner? You can't speak for his frame of mind and how he was feeling about this.

    I have more to say, but the more I think about it, the more mad I get.

    *ANY hateful comments WILL be deleted.*

  • A Break From Xanga (edit)

    ...maybe.

    The other day I posted about not being able to write anymore. I'm blocked. I don't know how to fix it, but I was going through my computer files last night, deleting useless junk. I came across some papers from school. My creative writing class in college.

    I've always been hesitant about my writing. I think my writing is good, but nothing great or spectacular. Earlier in the semester, I had talked to the instructor, and expressed my fears of not being good enough. When it came time to write a short story or the beginning of a novel for an assignment, I wrote the following:

    Night Hunter

    He’s graceful as he hunts and the personification of quiet. He glides into the bedroom and sits on the edge of the bed. There she is, a sleeping beauty. It’s dark, but he doesn’t need any light. His eyes adjust to the light and he can see her just as well. Her auburn hair is slightly curled and fans around her head. He can imagine the color of her eyes, a warm chocolate brown.
    The black bedspread and black curtains off set the deep, blood red of the sheets and the blinds. This was what he called his killing room, a place where the hunt ends. His trance of the hunt made him focus solely on the woman lying on the bed. Life ceases to exist in this room, and any other time, he conveniently forgets its existence.
    He stares down at her for a moment before slowly leaning towards her. His movements are slow and practiced as he reaches his goal. It’s sudden and clean when it happens. His fangs sink into the vein throbbing at her neck, almost reaching for his teeth. He doesn’t seem to notice anything except for this moment.
    Her heartbeat slowed down to nothing as her body dies. He gently lets her go from his death grip. There’s nothing left behind, no evidence of his evil deed. Grief stricken, he leaves the room almost as it was. Except, there was no longer a breath of life from within.

    Vincent Del Francesi gripped the wrought iron railing so hard he almost broke it. His knuckles were white from the force. His mind was reeling and he could barely see through the red haze. He whirled around and went into the house to get his painting materials. It was the only thing that calmed him down. His hands were steady as his set up the easeal and put a fresh canvas upon it. He painted the sea, as he did so many times. It was so angry tonight; waves crashing onto the rocks below with roaring ferocity.
    He always felt this way after he hunted. He hated what he did, what he was. He’d have to throw her body in the sea before morning, but he couldn’t bring himself to face what he’d done just yet. He had to paint it out first, with almost frenzied strokes upon the canvas. When he finished, he stepped back to look at his work. What he saw unnerved him to the core of his very being. His eye moved to that spot in the sea before he’d taken the painting in as a whole. There, in the middle of the sea, was her face. It was the face of the woman he’d just murdered. Every time he stole someone’s life, every time he painted. And every time he painted, he unknowingly painted the face of the woman who’s life he’d stolen.
    It had been so long ago that he’d been a boy in the streets of Rome, trying to earn food for pay by painting protraits. He had been skilled, but not many in those times could afford to spare anything for their portrait. And then one day came Francesca Frencisi. It was dusk, the sun just setting. Vincent had been packing up his paints when she glided up to him like an angel from heaven. She was so beautiful, all he could do was stare. She asked him to paint her in her home. If he’d only known then what she was. He would have ran in the opposite direction. But he was innocent to her plans, and agreed to go to her home.
    The word vampire tasted like acid on his tongue, an acrid burning that never went away. He gathered his paints and put them away. He glanced at the painting once more before he took it away and put it in the room with all the others. He never looked in this room either. It was storage for his other life, the one he neglects to mention at dinner parties and social galas. It was this life that he kept a secret, a dark and dangerous secret that could never get out. He locked the door and didn’t look back.

    I was nervous when I sent it in. I didn't know what she would think of my writing skills. When it was graded and sent back to me, this is what she wrote at the end:

    Actually, Crystal, I think this is a really good start! There are a couple weird tense usages (have ran should be have run), but I like this. I think you have a very good sense of how to write fiction, and I am very envious; I can pretty much only do CNF and Poetry. I feel like I am “forcing” stuff out when I try fiction. I would love to see this in its completed form/as it evolves, and I think you would benefit greatly by taking classes at the Loft, or at a 4-year college in writing! So, to answer you question that you asked a long time ago: Can I write? YES! You can! You seem to have a natural talent for it!

    I didn't remember what she said until I found it on my computer. Her words gave me hope last night that I can do this. I think I might need to take a break from xanga and focus. I haven't been around much lately, but I haven't been writing. I think I need to start again. No matter how much I sit and stare at a blinking cursor, that's what I need to be doing. A novel doesn't write itself. And someday always seems to be "never." "I'll write a novel... someday."

    I think someday needs to be now. No matter how much I love my friends, Xanga distracts me... too much it seems. I should be focusing on my writing.

    Right now, I'm a little undecided. It would be a lot for me to stay away. For some of you, I have your phone numbers and we can text. Some of you are friends on FB. I just don't know what to do right now.

    Edit:

    The following is how I re-wrote the beginning some time ago:

    When the lights turn down for the night and everything falls into quiet, the last person awake went about his nightly task of hunting his unsuspecting prey. The victorian mansion fell into a state of restlessness until the deed was done. Cold stone slipped into shadow and he found what he was looking for in one of the rooms. The best ears couldn’t have heard the door open and shut again as he entered the bedroom. Plush red carpet hid the sound of his gliding step.
    Decorated in black and blood red, the room was one of his favorites. Black silk curtains looped around the four-poster bed; black silk drapes hung from the windows. He stared down at the sleeping beauty before him. The bright red bedspread made her lips seem pale in comparison, he thought. If he closed his eyes, he could picture the color of hers; green, with little blue flecks in them. A single black candle lit up little space in the room, but it didn’t matter; he didn’t need it. His eyes could see just as easily in the dark as in the light.
    His trance of the hunt made him focus solely on the woman lying on the bed. Life ceased to exist in this room and any other time, he conveniently forgot its existence. The image before him would last in his mind, as all the others had. Her blond hair fanned out around her, the black lingerie made her skin pale and almost luminescent. He took one last look before he gracefully sat beside her. His movements were elegant, full of ease and practice. He bent down, and whispered soothing words in her ear. He told her that everything would be okay and she would feel no pain. He kept his promise as he bit into her jugular, and he felt her pulse speed up, then slowly fade away as he drank her warm blood. Sated, he gently laid her limp body onto the bed, just as he had found her. As an accomplished hunter, he left no mess; no blood spilled from her wounds or his own lips. He tenderly kissed her forehead, and stood up. He blew out the black candle much as he blew out the candle of her life, and as quietly as he came, he left.
    A few minutes later, Vincent Del Francesi gripped the wrought iron railing so hard he almost broke it. His knuckles were white from the force. The water crashed almost directly below the balcony and the wind ripped the water around the rocks. His mind was reeling and he could barely see through the red haze. He whirled around in a fury and went into the house to get his paints. It was the only thing that calmed him down. His hands were steady as his set up the easel and put a fresh canvas upon it. He painted the sea, as he did so many times. It was so angry tonight; waves crashing onto the rocks below with roaring ferocity.
    He always felt this way after he hunted. He hated what he did, what he was. He’d have to throw her body in the sea before morning, but he couldn’t bring himself to face what he’d done just yet. He had to paint it out first, with almost frenzied strokes on the canvas. When he finished, he stepped back to look at his work. What he saw unnerved him to the core of his very being. His eye moved to that spot in the sea before he took the painting in as a whole. There, in the middle of the sea, was her face. It wasn’t noticeable unless one was looking for it, but her face was there. It was barely outlined in the dark colors, but looked just like her. It was the face of the woman he’d just murdered. Every time he stole someone’s life, every time he painted. And every time he painted, he unknowingly painted the face of the woman who’s life he’d stolen. He only saw it when he was finished; he never intentionally painted their faces.
    It had been so long ago that he’d been a young man, a boy really, in the streets of Rome, trying to earn food for pay by painting portraits. He had been skilled, but not many in those times could afford to spare anything for their portrait. Then one day came Francesca Frencisi. It had been just after dusk, the sun had just set. Vincent had been packing up his paints when she glided up to him like an angel from heaven. She was so beautiful, all he could do was stare. She asked him to paint her in her home. If he’d only known then what she was. He would have run in the opposite direction. But he was innocent to her plans, and stammered an agreement at her request.
    The word vampire tasted like acid on his tongue, an acrid burning that never went away. He had spent several years as Francesca’s plaything, her entertainment. She would sometimes drink from him, but he was mostly an amusement until he looked old enough for her to turn when he was 22. The years of bitterness and resentment had him causing a ruckus and raising hell for a long time with her, until Francesca was finally killed by a beautiful vampire huntress. It was then that he really started hating what he had become.
    Frustrated, he gathered his paints and put them away. He glanced at the painting once more, with disgust and regret mixing in the fresh blood in his body. He took it away and put it in the room with all the others. He never looked in this room either. It was storage for his other life, the one he neglects to mention at dinner parties and social galas. It was this life that he kept a secret, a dark and dangerous secret that could never get out. He locked the door and didn’t look back.

  • I'm getting really mad...

    I know the Mac haters are going to be all like, "HA!!" but I'm getting pissed.

    For a long time, I've had issues with video streaming off the internet. Every time I watch a TV show on most websites, it doesn't buffer right. Even if I pause it for a long time and let it buffer, it starts skipping after a few minutes.

    I don't understand what's going on. I've tried cleaning shit up countless times, and I actually just cleaned up 4 gigs worth of crap, and I don't know why I'm having so much trouble. I've tried downloading the latest flash and it didn't do anything to help.

    I'm getting really frustrated because the only way I can watch the shows I want to watch is to watch them on the computer. I don't have TV in my room and the downstairs TV and DVR is dominated by my dad and sister. I can't afford a new computer, and I'm getting pissed.

  • OMFG!

    I FINALLY HIT 1,000 FRIENDS!!

    Okay, so maybe that's not such a big deal... but I've been secretly waiting for this landmark to happen... lame, I know. I was wondering what it looked like on my page. Apparently, Xanga feels like 1,000 friends deserves no comma in between the 1 and the 0. Hm.

    Anyways, sorry I haven't been around much lately... I've been busy, plus watching The Vampire Diaries. I have 2 episodes from season 1 left and then there's been 2 episodes of season 2 so far that I need to watch...because CW makes their episodes go away after 2 of them. I wonder if Top Model is new too... is there a new cycle right now? I should check that out... anyways, I'll hopefully blog more after I'm done catching up on shows =]

  • A Cleanse

    I was cleaning my room today and I realized that I have too many things. I have over 150 movies. I have about 30 or so video games. I have hundreds of books. Upwards of 100 bottles of nailpolish. Candles. Arts and crafts I've never finished. Clothes I never wear. Clothes I CAN'T wear because they were supposed to be my inspiration to get thin. I have a 32" 1080P TV in my room, a PS3, a PS2, a VCR that isn't hooked up. Tons of shoes. I have a stereo I never listen to. About 30 bottles of perfume (none of them name brand... knock offs. I never pay a lot for my perfume). Purses. Just.... stuff.

    I have so many boxes in the storage room that are mine. Many of them hold books, but many of them contain things. Sure, some of these things are things that have been given to me. Things that contain memories.... memories that I would forget if I didn't have these things. I have like no room in my bedroom for things.

    But... what do these things really matter? They are things. Material possessions don't matter in the end. When you die and your soul does what it will... these things are left behind, useless. Well, not useless to others, perhaps, but they are useless to you.

    Maybe I should clean some of this shit out. What do I need it for? I will never part with my books. But maybe I can get rid of some of these shoes and purses and clothes I don't wear. Maybe I should purge my soul of these useless things.

  • I don't think I can do this anymore.

    I've wanted to be an author for a very long time. For about half of my life. I wanted to write tons of novels, like Danielle Steel, Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Nora Roberts. Writing was my passion. It helped me feel better in times of darkness. I would crank out poems in five minutes. I could barely get the first one written before I was writing the next one. I was writing short stories and thinking of the novels I wanted to write someday. I was reading and writing all the time.

    I still read a lot. But I'm not writing anymore. It's still my dream to be an author, but I don't write anymore. It's like I can't feel it anymore. I don't understand it. I still have ideas and thoughts, but I can't write anymore. I've had a novel idea in my head for a few weeks now, and I just started writing it. But I didn't even get a page done and I feel like I can't write it anymore. It's giving me a panic attack and I can't breathe.

    It's like, I'm getting anxious. I can't handle it. I don't understand what's happening. Why can't I write? It's not writer's block, really, because I still have ideas. But I'm blocked in some way, somehow, and I don't know why.

    I don't think I have it anymore.

  • What really grinds my gears.

    You know what really grinds my gears?

    PEOPLE WHO CAN'T FLIRT.

    I don't know what it is... like an art or something to flirting, and there are some people who just don't have it.

    I am certainly not the best flirter out there by any means, but I'm better than some. It really annoys me when people are not good flirters and they're trying to flirt with me. It's one of the biggest turn offs. They don't say the right things, and they keep saying the same things over and over.... and other offenses.

    IT'S SO GODDAMN ANNOYING!!!

    It makes me not want to talk to the annoying flirter at all.

    :/

  • Oh and did I mention?

    That management didn't give me any work direction for my new job?

    I am just supposed to figure out how to do this on my own.

    Thanks for that.

    Anyway, I bought season 1 of the Vampire Diaries, so I'll be watching that... before I watch the first couple of episodes of the second season online.....

  • Dan Has An Affair

    Yes, it's true. Dan and I are having an affair.

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    Sorry Dan, I just had to come clean to xanga.

    Also, Shimmer wants to have lesbian sex with me.

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    See, she told me to bite her....

    And in reality, Dan loves Shimmer.

    This love triangle is getting messy.

    (Disclaimer: There really is no love triangle. Sorry for the misdirection.)