Month: May 2010

  • Dirty Bitch

    So, for the first time in a long time, I'm trolling around Vampire Freaks (vampirefreaks.com) and this guy starts messaging me. He tells me I have nice legs, and I say "You think? I think they're too muscular." He says that I don't want to know what he thinks because it's dirty and blah blah blah. He tells me that he wants to hold me down on the bed...which I love, because that's second in my list of what turns me on and I say, "I would struggle...promise you would be rough?" He calls me a dirty bitch!

    Then he wants me to get on IM...I say I'm not into the whole cybering thing...and then he tells me he wants to jack off to my pictures!

    Does this happen all the time? That they all want to jack off to my pictures??

    This is my default pic on my profile:

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    I suppose I shouldn't be surprised, lmao!

  • His Canvas

    Her body is his artwork
    His canvas
    His inspiration
    His lips touch her smooth skin
    His fingertips caress
    His hands kneed
    He can feel her bones beneath soft flesh
    Her muscles ripple and move as he explores her beauty
    She guides his hands where passion moves her
    The soft graze of teeth and tongue
    The trail left behind by his sweet breath
    The silky trace of desire
    It's just this moment
    Every crevice explored, relentless
    It lasts a lifetime,
    This journey
    Pleasure is only a brief stop in the interlude of ardor
    Shadows play in the candlelight
    And his mouth and fingers still upon her,
    His canvas

  • We Who Wear Our Pain on Our Skin

    **may be triggering**

    I just got back from my mom's house. On the drive home (which is over an hour), I thought about my life, past and present. A little bit of the future.

    You see, my life has been a large ball of bad memories, bad experiences, with a few good things thrown in. I never knew how to deal with it. Sometimes, writing was an outlet. That wasn't enough. Sometime after I graduated high school, I started cutting.

    I've blogged about cutting before, but this is just part of what was on my mind driving home.

    I cut on my thighs. Places people wouldn't see. At first, I was scared to do it. I would sit for a long time, twirling the blade in my fingers. When I would finally get the courage to do it, I dragged it across my skin fast, and never very deep. I would watch the blood bubble up with a sick but excited feeling in my stomach. Injuries and blood normally make me almost throw up, but not when I do it to myself. I don't know if I can describe the feelings that came to me.

    It was like everything bad fell away, and so did the world. In that moment, it was just me, a blade, and my blood. Nothing else mattered and no harm could come to me in these private times. My skin would feel tingly all over my body and I felt alive, with no hurt. It didn't hurt because I didn't want it to.

    It hurt afterwards, the next day. When I took a shower, the raw skin screamed at me. The jeans I wore rubbed against those cuts, and I loved that feeling. I loved the way it hurt. I guess those who have been hurt so much learn to love it, because we know nothing else. We don't know what being loved feels like.

    As time went on, I began to feel numb about everything that had happened to me, instead of being hurt all the time. I felt nothing, like I was in a void of blackness and every feeling I had ever had was stripped from my being.

    At this time, I started cutting deeper, because now I wanted it to hurt. I wanted to be able to feel something, because the numbness scared me in a way that nothing else had before. It hurt because I wanted it to. Sometimes I would wake from the walking coma and I was afraid. I was afraid that I was crazy, and that I should be locked up.

    I wouldn't wait for the new cuts to heal before I made new ones. The cutting was what I needed it to be that day. If I wanted to numb my emotional pain, it would do that. If I wanted to feel something, it would do that too.

    For awhile, I cut my wrist and wore bracelets, the black and pink rubber ones you can buy at Hot Topic. I cut there because it bled more. One time, I cut too deep and it wouldn't stop bleeding. I panicked and didn't know what to do. I know now that I wouldn't have died from that one cut, but at the time that's exactly what I thought. I did not want to die.

    That's the thing that's most misunderstood about cutting. Most of us are not suicidal. If we were, we know how to do it and we would. This is self-medication. It's the only way we can think of to help us survive.

    I would like to say that I learned my lesson and didn't cut anymore, at least not my wrist. But I would be lying. After a time though, I stopped cutting my wrist and went back to my thigh. And after a time, I did stop cutting. I think it's because I'm better emotionally. But the thing is, I fear that it's all pretend. It's all fake. I'm not better, and I'm only fooling myself.

    Every once in a while, I get in such a state that I do cut. I have reserve blades for those times. The other night when I made that post, I cut a lot. I counted 31 fresh cuts on my leg. We aren't all perfect.

    There is a new lady that works for the dining service in the cafeteria at work. A coworker told me the next time I see her that I should look at her arms. Her scars are really bad. There's one I saw that was about 3 inches long or so and very raised, so she must have cut very deep and possibly had to get stitches. I guess I'm thankful that mine on my wrist aren't that noticeable unless you're staring.

    All 3 of my sisters have cut at some point. My youngest sister still does. I look at the healing scars on her arm and wonder. I want to ask her how she feels when she does it, what she thinks about. I know it's because of my mother and how she treats her. I never ask. I think I've closed myself off too much that it's too hard to talk about with her.

    It's something that's not talked about at all. My sister's scars and healing skin are seen, but not mentioned. When I wear sleeping shorts and my scars and newly healing skin are seen, it's not mentioned. My mother says nothing. My step dad says nothing. I say nothing. My sister says nothing.

    We are the ones that wear our pain on our skin.

  • Oh wow

    Soooo. Pretty much every Wal-Mart I go into feels trashy. It's just the feel of the place. I much prefer Target over Wal-Mart. So I laugh at the people on peopleofwalmart.com. Listen, there are crazy people in the world. Don't people look at what they're wearing before they go out in public? wtf. Also, if you don't have the body, PLEASE don't squeeze yourself into clothes that don't fit! It's frightening.

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  • So Guess What!!!!!!!!!

    So out of curiosity today, I went asked the supervisor when the replacement would be starting for me to train. He says, "I actually have to talk to you about that. Conference room 20!"

    Conference room 20 is actually the steps outside of the receiving dock door. It is called such because the door number is 20. Pretty clever, huh?

    Anyway, we go out there and he tells me that I will be here indefinitely.

    I said, "yay!"

    He goes, "But. There is a but."

    I say, "My actions are being watched."

    He goes, "Yes, your actions are being watched." And he went on to tell me that I need to stay focused and not talk too much and not take long lunches (huh, maybe that should be told to some other people....)

    So, in essence, I have my job back! I went out to the dock happy. C goes, "You're pretty chipper." I said, "Yeah, you wanna know why?"

    "I already know. I've known for a long time," he said.

    I GOT MY JOB BACK! I GOT MY JOB BACK! I GOT MY JOB BACK!!!!

    So anyway, I'm going to get back to watching True Blood, which is fucking fabulous so far, by the way!!!!

    *happy dance*

  • Her Splintered Heart

    A bottle of whiskey was in front of her. A shot. The table she sat at was faded with age, scars in the wood. With shaky hand and breath she downed the shot and poured another. The drink burned her throat down to her stomach. She welcomed it with open arms.

    The mascara and eyeliner were a day old on her weary face. She didn't bother wiping the tears away. The silent tears throbbing down her cheeks. They burned her worse than the whiskey. She turned the shot glass around and around with her fingers. The whiskey half gone already in the bottle.

    Her small frame slumped in the rickety chair, the air so humid you could cut it with a knife. She could barely feel it. All she could feel was her splintered heart. She idly wondered why she bothered with the shot glass. Why not drink from the bottle? She finally took the shot and poured one more. One for my baby, and one more for the road.

    It was getting dark outside. The crickets and frogs started singing. The birds were talking. Shot after shot. It wasn't as quiet as everyone makes loneliness sound. It was fucking loud in the silence. Time passed, the argument long done and the man long gone.

    She wanted to destroy everything, but she didn't. Couldn't. She could only drink and cry desolate, silent tears.

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    It's been awhile since I've written some fiction. What do you think? I think it's kind of terrible.

  • Brittany Murphy's Husband Died

    Brittany Murphy's husband has died.

    How sad, 5 months after Brittany passed away, her husband too. They are saying at this point it looks like a heart attack. He was found by his mother in law, Brittany's mother. That poor woman.

    What a terrible time for the family, what they must be going through.

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  • Fuck Your Shit

    At work, there's this woman who's very funny. Her name is K.

    One day last week, she walks up to me and says, "fuck your shit."

    I said, "You too." And we laughed.

    So today I handed her a post-it, on which I wrote "fuck your shit"

    We laughed again :D

    Ahhh, good times good times.

    I won't be around much tonight because I've got my nose in a book, but I will check in every once in a while.

  • ShimmerBodyCream

    This post is for ShimmerBodyCream.

    Every time I hear this song, I think of her.