I'm sorry, but this is kinda long. If you don't wanna read something long, fine. But I would suggest reading it all, because it's a rant that speaks the truth and makes you think. If you don't wanna think, that's fine, but I would still read it, because, like I said, it's the truth. If you wanna debate, that's fine, you're entitled to your opinion. But my opinion is set in stone, because I happen to believe that it's the truth.
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Why do people have to treat others so poorly? If people think of how it feels to be treated so bad, then why do they make others feel that way? We all say we hate it when we see it happening, but then we turn around and do it to someone else. Don't people have hearts? If you see that what you're doing or saying is hurting someone else, how can you turn a blind eye? When you know how it feels?
Today there was a new temp at work. I don't know where exactly she's from, but she had some sort of middle eastern accent. I don't even know her name. I trained her a little bit, taking over when Chris left to do something else. But when I was done training and doing my own work, I started thinking. I honestly don't understand why everyone's afraid of people from the Middle East, or look at them with suspicious eyes. It's a place, it's utterly ridiculous. It's a place of fear, a place of severe political unrest. In high school, there was a Somalian that went to our small town school. In World Cultures class one day, I heard her story for the first time. Her family lived there, but it was too unsafe for them, so they got out of the country. Some how, they got divided from their father. They were separated for a long time, I think it was a few years, but I could be wrong.
Now can someone please tell me, how would you feel in that situation? Don't even think of what country it is, just think of the situation. You're afraid of leaving your house because you're afraid of dying, of getting blown to pieces. But your family needs to eat, they need to make a living, and they can't stay in the house forever. You're most likely living in poverty. Everyday you have a fear that coils in your stomach and makes you sick...but you have to do it, you have to go out and live. Eventually, the fear gets to be too much and you plan to leave, go to a better place. Most likely, there's complications on getting out. You're separated from a family member, and you're left wondering, worrying. You try to make the other family members feel better by being strong, but it's so hard. Everyday, you want to give up, but maybe the next day things could change, get better, so you don't give up, you never give up. You move somewhere else, and it's better, but not by much. People see you as a terrorist, even though you'll never be a part of it. But just because of where you're from, they see you as an evil being. The color of your skin, the accent, it's secondary to where you're from. If it isn't where you're from, it's something else they don't like about you. There's always the excuse. You wonder what you did to them. Suspicious eyes follow you wherever you go, you're never left alone. Threats, jokes, degredation, you traded fear and dying for this. Was it worth it?
Judging a person based on where they're from is stupid, it's like saying that because someone is from Minneapolis, they're probably in a gang, or that I went to school in a small town, I'm ignorant. Saying that they shouldn't be here is also stupid. They're trying to live a better life than what they were. Is that so wrong? If you had the choice, what decision would you make? What people often forget to do is put themselves in someone else's shoes.
When I talk about this, I also start thinking about racism and how pointless that is. If you were to look at a drop of blood on the floor, you wouldn't be able to tell if the person is black, white, green, pink. I mean, it's blood, bones, muscle, skin. It's not the color of skin that's what matters, it's the person. Now, I'm definately not saying that only white people are racist, because that would be a stupid statement to make. Everyone's racist, the color of skin doesn't matter. A lot of black people are probably more racist than white people. They can't get over slavery, they still have that mindset. Your family has more to do with it than friends. You see that in American History X. If you've never seen that movie, you really should. Excellent movie, I'd recommend it to anyone. But my point is, people judge people based on everything except the important thing: who they are inside, what kind of person they are. If you don't like someone, fine. But don't make it because of something superficial.
